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Sex Guides

Between pornography and media portrayals of scantily-clad women, there has become a stereotype of what the ideal vulva looks like. "Normal" now almost looks like a Barbie doll. We'll talk about how we got here, and what is actually normal.
  • 9 min read
Between porn, internet stories of crazy sexcapades, and Fifty Shades of Grey, it's easy to feel like something's wrong with you when you can't orgasm or don't orgasm as much as you'd like. We get into the science of anorgasmia, some common causes, and what can help.
  • 8 min read
Learn about the different ways a remote control vibrator can work, including pros and cons for what to consider when shopping for one for yourself or your partner. Learn what the difference is between app controlled toys, including ones that use bluetooth/wifi, or a separate remote control.

So today, I’m here to share with you my masturbation data results collected with the Lioness Vibrator of what my orgasm looked like using the Lelo Sona Cruise to find out if clitoral suction vibrators are actually better...

  • 4 min read

Although the Lioness Vibrator is primarily thought of as a product for self-discovery, it’s also a great tool for our-discovery. Basically, what I’m saying is that it can also be one of the best sex toys out there for couples. Not only is it a great vibrator, it can also help you and your partner have better sex (with and without the vibe).

If you or your partner have ever had trouble finding your clitoris, we're going into graphic, nitty-gritty detail on what to do here. We're even going to have pictures and troubleshooting steps! We're dispensing with the vague, mystical descriptions here since those have never helped anyone.
  • 9 min read

Facebook (and Instagram) decided to ban speech related to “sexual slang” on their platform. Meanwhile, Steam takes a more nuanced approach to their content, treating adults like adults (within reason).

You’ll never forget your firsts. First crush, first lover, first vibrator. All of them can be extremely confusing to navigate. If you have questions about navigating love, I don’t think I’m your gal... but as someone who knows plenty about sex toys and has built some as well, I can certainly help you navigate the trials and tribulations of buying your first vibrator and learning how to use sex toys. I’ll tell you my mistakes so hopefully you can feel a little bit less in the dark when you buy your first (or second) toy.

  • 12 min read

Lube gets a lot of unnecessary flack. Even though research has shown that 65.5 percent of women and 70 percent of men have used commercial lubricants, there are still many folks who have the attitude that if you are sexually lacking if you need to use additional lubrication.

Short of me saying those people are flat out wrong, here’s the thing — lubrication isn’t just for people who lack natural moisture. As Vice aptly states, “having high-quality lube is kind of like putting high-quality gas in your car: Everything runs a lot better.”

We’ll talk about FAQs, considerations, and even provide recommendations to help get you started.

  • 9 min read

Advice from a female sex toy designer on what’s out there, what to look for, and recommendations.

  • 9 min read

Tumblr just announced that they would be removing all adult content from their site, presenting their announcement with the title “A better, more positive Tumblr”. Along with YouTube, Google, Facebook, and other major content providers, the internet is becoming more polarized about sex. It’s either completely wiping away anything sexual or throwing anything sexual over the wall into “adult content” (i.e. pornography) with no room in between. What are the implications of this?

  • 6 min read
I first heard about the Archer Bowchair from my college alumni network (I attended a women’s college). A bunch of us were fascinated by this chair. I mean, look at it—It’s not just a chair, it’s a work of art. I had to learn more. What I discovered was not only a great chair (and great sex), but also a love story. Not just any love story, but how to have a rich, fulfilling relationship no matter your circumstances.

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